sistawendy: me in a green velvet dress in front of a brick wall, laughing and looking up as I think, "WTF?" (wtf laughing)
sistawendy ([personal profile] sistawendy) wrote2025-07-30 07:46 pm

Just another weeknight out in the city.

I got a wild hair late yesterday and went to the Blue Moon for the open decks night. Who should soon end up at the table with the promoter, B, and me but S, a rather attractive lady in her thirties who seemed to know B? B was naturally running around doing promoter things, so I soon found myself alone in the company of a woman who, she said, was in the middle of a manic episode from bipolar disorder.

Hooee! I didn't get too many words in edgewise, which is doubly impressive if you've ever talked to me in person. There were tales of the local psych wards, involuntary separation from her dog, being a Congressional page, and of course, BDSM.

She talked about "her AI" as if it were a particularly knowledgeable friend. She objected when I said, "You know that's just statistics, right?" She really wants to believe it's more.

I recommended Marbles by Ellen Forney to her. She seemed excited to read it. When I read that book, which is a clear-eyed, perceptive, and often technical examination of the author's own bipolar disorder, I thought, 'Ellen Forney in a manic phase sounds like somebody I'd like to date.' Last night made me question that a little. Both Forney and S are queer because of course they are.

Seldom have I been more relieved that an attractive queer woman who shares some of my, uh, proclivities is maybe a hair too young. On my way out the door, I said goodbye to B as usual. She seemed worried that S might have scared me away from that night. Nah. If you can't handle some WAT in your life, you shouldn't live in a big city.

Rock solid house spun by Latino guys, though. Even with all the time I spent picking my jaw up off the table, it was a good night.
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cupcake_goth ([personal profile] cupcake_goth) wrote2025-07-29 07:58 pm

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 Guess who won a chest X-ray, a nebulizer treatment, and will be picking up antibiotics, steroids, and prescription cough syrup? So fun.

The chest X-ray was totally fine, yay. And some of the rattling cough, congestion, and face pain are definitely due to a building sinus infection.

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cupcake_goth ([personal profile] cupcake_goth) wrote2025-07-29 03:36 pm

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Damn, it's been a while since I updated. We went to San Francisco for the 2nd MCR show, and it was as fantastic as the first. There were some minor tweaks done to the non-music parts of the performance, and from what I hear more minor tweaks were done for the two L.A shows. Gerard Way is indeed living his best theatre kid life.

The SF "stage B" performance (when they perform non- Black Parade songs) wasn't as meaningful for me as the Seattle one. They didn't play "Thank You for the Venom" or "Vampires Will Never Hurt You", sigh. To the delight of others in the crowd, they covered "Bullet with Butterfly Wings" by Smashing Pumpkins. I say "to the delight of others" because I am a Seattle Old and Have Opinions about Smashing Pumpkins. (Not as bad as my opinions about Courtney Love, but I still Have Opinions.)

We also got to hang out with friends while in SF, one of whom was celebrating her 50th, yay! And we made a pilgrimage to Borderlands Books, where I foolishly looked in the rare books cabinet and then spent money on a first edition of The Vinegar Works, a three book box set of Edward Gorey books. (While I was dithering the Stroppy One said, "Will you regret not buying it?", which made it clear it needed to be mine.)

I brought a rotten cold home from SF; It's been slightly over a week and there's a crackling sensation when I breathe, so I'm headed to a clinic later today to (probably) get a z-pack and steroids.

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OH MY GOD THE TEASER FOR S3 OF INTERVIEW WITH THE VAMPIRE THE VAMPIRE LESTAT. Part of the teaser did confirm they're changing the name of the show, because the upcoming season focuses on my beloved egotistical vampire rock star boyfriend. Remember before the show premiered when I had concerns about Sam Reid playing Lestat, and how those concerns were blown to dust after episode one? Holy mother of god, Sam Reid has been possessed by the spirit of Lestat and I am frothing at the mouth about that teaser. I'm also stamping my feet in frustration because we have to wait until 2026 for the show omg I need it NOOOWWWWW.

So between MCR stuff and Lestat content, my Tumblr has been fannish incoherency. In L.A MCR played an unreleased song from the scrapped "Paper Kingdom" album. As I said over there, all I need now is for Hannibal S4 to be announced and my head really will explode.

sistawendy: me in my nurse costume looking weirded out (weirded out)
sistawendy ([personal profile] sistawendy) wrote2025-07-29 08:17 am
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real estate madness

The sale of my mom's house was scheduled to close on the 11th. The United Sister Front was pleased with this development, to say the least. Yesterday, though, I got word through Good Sister that the buyer wanted to move the closing date earlier, to Friday the 1st. Again, we're unanimous that that's fine with us, but now we have to get in touch with the title company or whoever and set up the notarization, etc. The three time zones between me and everyone else involved are inconvenient, but c'est la vie.

GS takes exception to the notary fees. I honestly can't remember if they're out of line.

An hour ago I got word that they want to do the closing on Thursday. That's right, two days from now. I'm starting to wonder what's up. Time to text Good Sister...
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sistawendy ([personal profile] sistawendy) wrote2025-07-28 01:21 pm

Nun raves local.

No update yesterday because staying out late Saturday night and the COVID shot I had Saturday afternoon caught up with me.

A few days ago I came across an announcement for something called Rave Cave at Hidden Hall, the old Brouwer's space. (*Sniffle!*) It was aimed at queer women. I felt obligated to go, natch.

A note about the venue, because it relates to the rest of the entry. Brouwer's sold lots of snobby, European bear with Belgian style pub grub. I loved it and went often, but that wasn't enough to save it: it closed last year. But as it turns out, the space itself is ideal for clubbing with the addition of a stage and a solid sound system. Hidden Hall, probably so called because it's not right on Fremont Way, still has the faux-stone walls and some of the hundreds of stickers behind the bar. So that makes three night spots in Fremont with some joint cover arrangements and, I believe, the same ownership: Nectar, which is the best looking; the smaller and funkier Hi Dive; and now the rectilinear and cavernous Hidden Hall.

But on to Rave Cave! I think the promoter was the same one who did another event aimed at queer women at the Hi Dive. So the promoter, DJ MIXX America, DJ'd the first half of the show, which was way up tempo and kind of generic, honestly. The second DJ, Sophia K, was more to my liking.

But what really got the crowds attention was the pole dancer. Um, she's not bad, to say the least. I responded to the DJ's "Where da money at?"

Other eye candy? Not bad at all, not least because I ran into Vienna La Rouge there. Yeah, she likes to goth up and go to raves, too, and thank Goddess for that. Speaking of gothing up, I wore a little black sundress with stompy 'Vogs and expected to be lost an a sea of Da-Glo, but neau, I guess I was on the dyke wavelength.

Would I go to an event with that crew again? Provisionally, yes.
sistawendy: me in C18-inspired makeup looking amused (amused eighteenthcent)
sistawendy ([personal profile] sistawendy) wrote2025-07-25 06:43 am
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Happiness...

...is making plans to go out in the next few weekends right before bed.

Oh: As alert readers know, an awful lot of the art on the walls here at the Devil Girl House could be — indeed, has been — called pornographic. I need to call MasterCard and Visa about how they've caved to anti-porn campaigners because
  1. I want to support artists who make it.
  2. I want to buy there art without going to ridiculous lengths.
  3. My very existence could be deemed pornographic, as could that of any trans or other queer person.
sistawendy: me looking confident in a black '50s retro dress (mad woman)
sistawendy ([personal profile] sistawendy) wrote2025-07-23 11:56 am
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Nun gets some culchah.

The Tickler took me to see "Koyaanisqatsi" with the Philip Glass Ensemble performing the score live at Benaroya Hall here in Seattle. In brief: recommended!

Our seats were at the back near an aisle, so we got to see a lot of the crowd as they entered. It was more of a fashion show than you'd expect from Seattle. These symphony goers, who I assume tend toward the het and normie if nerdy, put an awful lot of local gay bars to shame in terms of style.

But! The actual music! I'd seen "Koyaanisqatsi", gosh, how long ago? I'm not completely sure it was even this century, and it was only once. But I remembered liking it, which was one reason why I said yes to the Tickler. Hearing it live in a symphony hall with a mighty sound system and perfect acoustics, well, "mind-blowing" doesn't really do it justice.

For those who don't know, "Koyaanisqatsi" is a "documentary without words", i.e. an art film, released in 1982 about modern life and its excesses. The name is Hopi for, among other things, "crazy life". The soundtrack is by big deal Philip Glass, and fits the material uncannily well with its repetitive, minimalist style.

I like to think my mother would have approved. I mean, it was a symphony concert, even if Glass wasn't her jam. I'm not even sure she was familiar with him. I'd love to call her and talk about it, but that hasn't been an option for a while now.

Bonus: I ran into [personal profile] gfish on the train home! Yeah, he was there for the concert too, natch. I hadn't seen him in years, but he gave me reason to believe that I may be seeing more of the Agorans in the next few months. May, he was careful to emphasize.
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sistawendy ([personal profile] sistawendy) wrote2025-07-21 01:53 pm
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weekend summary

The Tickler came! There were spendy birthday eats at Le Coin, but I don't regret anything just yet. They did the (ahem) things they often do when they come up here. Made In House has reopened after remodelling, therefore more eetz on Sunday afternoon. Happiness.
sistawendy: me in my nun costume with my duster cross, looking hopeful (hopeful nun)
sistawendy ([personal profile] sistawendy) wrote2025-07-19 05:09 pm
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an un-munch

I went to the leather dyke munch at CC's yesterday evening, and discovered that it wasn't officially happening. CC's was hosting a private event whose theme was Studio 54.

But! Not to be deterred, organizatrices B&A had set up an unofficial munch in an out-of-the-way part of the bar. There were no bootblacks, to the disappointment of two of us with scuffed boots including me. Nevertheless, there was queer & kinky conversation be had, and meeting of peeps. Rather good, even if once again I was way older than nearly everyone there. (If I remember correctly B is 12 years younger than I am, and they're the next oldest.)

Oh: apparently the Cuff may be a once and future leather bar. Its takeover by twinks or A-gays may have been temporary; I didn't quite follow everything that was going on.

I shall definitely return next month! With scuffed boots. Meanwhile, I await the arrival of the Tickler.